I did decide to do better and be better all on my very own before I met him. I began taking steps to correct the things that weren't working in my life.
I am steadily losing weight through healthier eating habits and exercise. I am getting organized again. I restructured my business for better work-life balance.
And now, knowing him, loving him is just added motivation to continue cultivating seeds I'd already planted.
I feel so far removed even now from the person I was in December. I experienced a monumental spiritual and emotional growth spurt. A true paradigm shift. I look back now and I still can't believe it. How far I have come in such a short while. But I am happy for it.
Happy that I was ready for him to come into my life.
I do very much feel that we will continue to grow together. He wants all the same things that I do, with the same intensity, to the same degree.
I've never experienced this and neither has he. And both of us have so much appreciation.